A few weeks ago I talked about things I like to hear during a spanking. This post is about the non speech things.
Having Mistress remove the last layer of clothing is good. Feeling hands slipped into each side of your waistband and pull down says she means business.
Being tapped on the bum or hips by the cane to adjust the position is always necessary.
Seeing an implement selected and out ready for use gets the heart beating.
Pointing at the bed, chair or wherever the spanking is to take place.
Sometimes seeing Mistress clothed normally for a punishment. For fun, a pair of stiletto heels is a must.
Mistress must give the air of authority and give the impression that the spanking is effortless to her and there’s plenty in reserve. There must be an air of simplistic elegance and totally relaxation.
Playing with the implement. Canes and crops should be flexed and given trial swishes. Tawses and straps should be held in both ends and flexed or held around Mistresses own ass, or around the neck. Paddles can be slapped against the other hand and tapped against any hard surface.
The hand on the small of the back that says you ain’t getting up yet.
I’m sure there’s more, but that all I can think of at this point. Do you have any?
A
Disciplined Boyfriend 
“Mistress must give the air of authority and give the impression that the spanking is effortless to her and there’s plenty in reserve. There must be an air of simplistic elegance and totally relaxation.”
Well said! I also think she should exude an insouciant air of amused detachment as the naughty boy howls and writhes during the punishment, goading him for not being able to take his thrashing with more dignity and stoicism. That’s easy for her to say of course, because she is not the one on the receiving end and given that in her world the cane is a punishment reserved exclusively for bad boys, she never will experience for herself just how painful it is.
“Sometimes seeing Mistress clothed normally for a punishment. For fun, a pair of stiletto heels is a must”
Personally i love to see a lady dressed in supremely feminine attire when administering a punishment – skirt/dress stockings and heels. For me elegance and femininity are very empowering for a woman, so this look enhances the aura of female superiority. Moreover, the fact that she is fully clothed in such chic attire contrasts starkly with the males hapless state of nudity or semi nudity, further reinforcing her authority.