Sometimes I crave spankings. Nice spankings, and not the horrible punishments that the Bitch Strap is used for. I mentioned before that Lady C does not do warm-ups and goes straight to burning, stinging throbbing pain. Therefore I think I want one the nice spanking starting with over the knee hand spanking to gently warm the cheeks before going the next level with the paddle. Next, a more kinkier I want her to straddle me and spank down each check until there’s a slight wriggling going on and then maybe spank a bit harder, faster, or even both. Then to the finale with one of the lesser used straps to make the pink glow turn to red and leave me ready to consummate the spanking with a nicely reddened bum.
How do I get such a spanking? Easy. I just need to ask Lady C to do it for me. She’s always happy to oblige. However, it doesn’t always turn out how I wanted it. She just takes advantage of the situation and does her own thing, usually heavy handed with her Mistress Strap or a nasty Tawse. Its so much easier for her if I willingly present my bum to her than her demanding that I get into position.
I should be careful want I wish for, however secretly I do like when she takes control of a situation and enforces the FLR. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Promise me you’ll take care of that matter. Promise to the paddle. Yes that damned evil, leather boudoir paddle.
Grrrr. On a cold bum. That’s right Lady C doesn’t do warm-ups. It’s straight to sting. After the first stroke I’m not wanting anymore. After two more in working out of the way. Which makes her slow down and stop. Good job she didn’t tie me down and go for it.
And if I don’t live up to my promise, then it’s the butch strap next time, she says.
A recent conversation with Mistress revealed that she is uncomfortable with weals and welts. When she sees the welts she thinks she has gone too far. She likes the redness, the wriggling, just seeing my naked bum and knowing she has the power to make me go OUCH.
From my point of view the welt/weal is the trophy, a badge of honour that says that I have taken a trashing from Mistress. Mistress needs to take them as a success – something that says she’s achieved the goal of punishing my ass as well as reliving the moment when I complain or sit down gingerly.
As usual I got the warning – “beware of what you ask for!”. Technically I didn’t ask, just facilitated it. So now she has to stop worrying about the state she leaves my ass in and more on concentrating on admiring her handiwork.
Its another start to a new regime. A stricter, harsher Mistress that’s going to get things moving and ensure that things get done. We’ve both been under par for a few months, me even longer with not enough energy to blog or to even think about sex and kink, and last weekend was the first time for a while that I felt inclined to do something. Mistress of course took advantage and gave me a reminder with her riding crop, boudoir paddle and Mistress Strap of what to expect if I don’t conform to her rules and commands. As always when we start out we get all sorts of obstructions in our way. This time it was having family staying over for the week. They’re all gone now and its time to get started with the planning again.
As A has mentioned he was working away for quite a while. This has left the weekly maintenance sessions in not a small amount of disarray. With times A was home very short and often clashing with other family commitments, we have found ourselves with quite a backlog!
Luckily, whilst drawing up our contract, we made provision for just such an emergency. Maintenance missed can be caught up on by following a simple formula. A is really not looking forward to all the extra strokes required to catch his backside up on all the missed sessions.
The formula adds 4 strokes to the original 6 for each missed session! So for a session catching up on 1 we would have 10 strokes. I started him off gently as I feel his cheeks had become soft after such a long time, so 2 sessions were merged and 10 strokes duly swiped across his perfectly presented ass.
Today is the start of the extending of the maintenance sessions, A is to recieve 14 strokes of my beloved ‘Mistress Strap’ 3 sessions in one. This will be followed by the 4 session missed session, if you get my meaning, having 18 strokes of the strap.
I have been walking round town with a rather smug look upon my face as I am seeing a lot of my A’s beautifully rosy ass squirming beneath me.
It’s that time of year when the world goes crazy doing all sorts of random things and pretending its all part of Christmas. Why shouldn’t the spanking and DD world get a share of the fun too? Continue reading →
Yesterday was the one year anniversary of our domestic discipline agreement. As it customary with other anniversaries we thought we would do something to recognise the acheivement.
After getting dresed in suitable attire – a lovely green basque, matching knickers and a heels for C, naked except for a humbler for me – we got down to the business in hand. First on the agenda was the renaming of the Mistress Strap – aka Bitch Strap – to become the HOH Strap. To be used only by C at any time for maintenance and discipline. I can no longer touch it except when explicitly commanded by C to fetch or put away. The strap formally known as the Mistress Strap has been C’s favourite over the last year. She finds it very easy to use and is always pleased with the results it produces in reddening by bum so it was appropriate that it was recognised. C stated that she will continue the use the HOH Strap with as much, possibly more enthusiasm in the coming year.
Presentation ceremony of the HOH Strap over it was time for the special Annual Maintenance Spanking. We had decided that there wasn’t to be any maintenance or discipline at this ceremony, but after the results of the poll here it was obvious that our readers expected one. The annual maintenance was in two parts. A single stroke as hard as C could deliver was to represent the ending of the previous year with all crimes and misdemeanors having been addressed and completed. Another single stroke even harder was to mark the start of the coming year and the to symbolise that the domestic discipline regime would continue but with stricter rules and harder punishments. C delivered the first stroke but due to the position couldn’t get a really good swing. The next year’s stroke didn’t connect too good either as landed a bit low catching the top of my legs – ouch.
In between strokes C applied some wax to my bum. This was something that she’s wanted to do ever since the first days of our relationship. She was a bit disappointed that the wax being ripped off didn’t reduce me to a blubbering wreck. On the other hand she is pleased by the smooth lines of my rear end. My bum is now clean and free of hair and prepared to receive punishments in the coming year.
We had some dinner accompanied by wine before retiring to the bedroom. I then lay across C’s lap and we practiced some vows before C gave me a nice hand spanking. We then ended the evening with some love making before heading off to the pub and complete the celebrations. We did drink more that we intended and have possibly broken our rules on the first day of year two. It was a special occasion and hopefully C will recognise the fact and I’ll escape a spanking.
Over dinner we had a mini review of the year past. We could think of lots of good things that our year of domestic discipline has allowed, but we could come up with a single bad thing with the exception of my bum getting regularly roasting. One of our DD goals is our health and in particular drinking less and losing a bit of weight. It was really good that C managed to fit into one of her basques and looked stunning in it. If there was ever a good reason for continuing with DD then it was seeing C towering over me waring her basque and looking stern.
The last month or so we have been getting better prepared and putting more emphasis on DD within our relationship and we’re wanting to achieve more sooner. C has also recently discovered how quick and effective the alternate punishments like tawsing my hands, spanking my balls and locking me in a chastity tube are. So armed with her HOH Strap, the stricter rules and the recently added consequences it should be an interesting year ahead and most of it will be spent with my bum in the air.