FLR Rules in Action


A very nice example of our new FLR rules in action occurred today.   Just to recap I wanted C to be the all loving, all strict, disciplining, yet sexy fun and devious Mistress and Wife.

Today I made a simple error using my not-so-smart phone and allowed the autotype feature to use the wrong form of you/you’re.

Lady C decided that she would teach me the different between the two spellings and usage with her paddle.

As though she needs an excuse to paddle my ass!

A

Implement of the Week


This will be this week’s instrument of punishment. Specially an implement will be chosen every week for My Disciplinarian to punish me. The details of the punishments have still to be worked out, but the implement of the week will be used.

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There’s a nice hook been recently installed close to our front door which will in our moments of privacy be used to hang said implement upon. It’ll be one of the first things to be seen walking into the house or navigating between lounge and kitchen.
I have selected the following implements to be available: Auntie Strap, HOH Strap, 3H Tawse, 2H Tawse, 2M Tawse, Glasgow Strap, Dominator Strap, Senior Dragon Cane, Loopy Johnny and Boudoir Paddle.
I’ve not decided on the selection process yet. I may choose them myself, Lady C may get to choose, or I may even be open to suggestions from the readers here. The implement will be changed at the same time as we change our bathroom towels, so that should be easy to remember.
The first implement will be the auntie strap, but before it can be put into use I’m going to need to do some thinking about the punishments. Of course, these are my rules for me, and in no way restrict Lady C from doing her own thing in addition to them. I would hate to think that I was overruling her 😉

A Little Reminder


For a week we had a trial of something slightly different in the DD campaign.  HOH would provide a “reminder” about our tasks and goals for that day.  That reminder took the form of laying across HOH’s knee whilst she nagged and questioned about what we were going to achieve or, in the case of the pub, not going to do.  With a tautly stretched bot and the boudoir paddle applied in time to the nagging it got the message across and overall was a success.

We been talking about this again this week and how its so much better than maintenance. Actually I think its maintenance albiet under a different name.   The idea behind it is that it is preventative and helps to achieve the goals by encouragement before failing.  It works for both of us as it helps us remember every day what our goals are. Lady C is also thinking about ceasing maintenance in favour of daily reminders.

Last night we had another reminder session.   HOH also wanted me to choose the implement – “not for me to choose My Darling HOH, but it has to be a nagging implement”.   She flirted with some of the nasty ones, but ended up with the red heart shaped paddle and got off very lightly with a massage more than a spanking.   Compare that to six with her HOH strap.

Question is should HOH use her strap for daily reminders or continue with a lessor implement like the Boudoir Paddle or should it be on a day by day basis?

Unfortunately we overdid it a bit last night and managed to conviently forget our goals and targets for the day.  But it was a special occasion and HOH did state that she was being kind.  I’m sure that mistake will not be made again.

A

International Consensual Spanking Day


Saturday 8th August was International Consensual Spanking Day I read on the web – here to be precise.  I told Lady C about it and asked if she wished I could spank her naked ass consensually – she declined 😦

I offered mine to her for a spanking in a style that I wanted and she jumped at the chance.   Lying naked on the bed with Lady C sitting astride me with the boudoir paddle.   Just the perfect position for her to paddle my ass long and hard.    And she did enjoying every moment especially when I was trying to wriggle and swirm and just couldn’t get out of the way of the nasty little paddle.

In a DD relationship, aren’t all spankings consensual?   I gave my consent to Lady C a long while ago that she could spank and punish my ass any time, any place and make it memorable.  What’s the different on Spanking Day?  For us, nothing really.   Just a change of position and implement and be able to say we celebrated International Consensual Spanking Day and raised our glasses for a toast.

If you did so too, hope you had as much fun as we did.

A

A Bad Day at the Office


C had a bad day at the office, so I jumped in the car and went into town to bring her home.  On the way home I suggested that if she wanted she could vent her anger on my ass once we got home.   There was only one condition –  she could only use the paddles.   It would be a paddling for every instance of annoyance or rant that she mentioned.

By the time we got home and ready for paddling, it was apparent that there was going to be a busy night.  Actually there wasn’t going to be enough time, so we settled for sparodic paddling every time she felt like it.  And that how it was, naked all night and almost non-stop paddling.

Until tonight…

A

Determination


Lady C performed another two doses of maintenance the other morning and then carried on.   “And these two strokes are for being cheeky via email, and three for distracting me when I was trying to iron”.

Mistress Strap

Mistress Strap

Standard maintenance is six strokes with the evil HOH strap.    If maintenance is six strokes, shouldn’t a punishment be harder, longer?   At least the same?   Not that many strokes with this particular strap are needed to get the point over.

Anyway, I pointed this fact out to HOH.   I also pointed out about another infraction that she not bothered to note down or punish for.   That particular offence was having a background image on my tablet computer of a cute bum which was not C’s.   It reminds me of hers and I especially like the look over the shoulder as that is so Lady C.

She was mildly hurt by it and again I asked was this not one of the fundamental reasons for DD and doesn’t a spanked bot displace that hurt and clear the air?

The upshot of all this is that it kinda annoyed her a bit, not so much the perving at bums on tablet but telling her she was not doing discipline correctly. So when I got home Lady C was waiting for me in the bedroom and was in a more determined mood.   I would get a sore bot.  It would be very red, very stingy, and very memorable and she would not be stopping until it was so.   C has a very easy going attitute most of the time and that includes when she’s swinging straps around.  It’s almost that she doesn’t want to hurt me and just be nice.

In a strange way when C punishes hard I feel more loved than at any other time.   For a start we would not be doing this if we didn’t have a loving relationship and when its all over we ALWAYS hug.

Back to the pending punishments.    She made me fetch ten implements and lay them in front of her – the HOH Strap, Dominator Strap, Cane, Glasgow Strap, Loopy Johnny, Boudoir and wooden paddles and the three Lochgelly tawses.  “Pick two and I’ll pick two” she commands.

Boudoir PaddleI picked the dominator strap and the boudoir paddle.  She asks why I picked these two particular implements.  The dominator strap is by far the hardest and heavest implement that we have and with very little effort it has devastating results.  The boudoir paddle, by contrast, is probably one of the lightest.  Don’t get me wrong it is still very capable of producing sting.  That was chosen for its ability to colour in the rest of the bum that the strap missed or can’t easily access.   My choice was accepted even though she finds the strap quite ackward and heavy to hold, however I think the attraction of lots of sting and heat with little effort won the argument.

Her choice was her favourite HOH Strap and the wooden paddle I made recently.   She likes the paddle. It has a nice soft feel, an easy grip handle and is well balanced.  It also produces a lot of sting, not that she’s ever had it touch her bum.  The HOH Strap was no big surprise, after all it is her favourite and she knows that theres a lot in reserve beyond the standard six that she gives for maintenance.

Now it is time for my bottom to be bared.   She eventually chooses that I should get on my elbows and knees on the floor and she will stand astride me so that she can strap down my cheeks.   “How many strokes do you think?”, she asks.   “Never mind, I’ll finish when I’m happy with the result”.

I’m sure she could strap harder if she wanted, but she’s after accuracy and wants every stroke to count.  I didn’t count the strokes but it did not take too long (4 strokes) before I tried to wriggle out of the way.  There were strokes to the middle of one cheek, strokes to the other and then a few covered the middle making for a mostly all over covering.  I can’t remember how many times she ordered me back into position so that the strap could find its target again.

Next came the boudoir paddle and in the same position, it was used briskly on my already burning bum cheeks.  These were hard strokes, nothing like the power of the dominator strap but I could still feel them and before long I was wriggling to try and avoid these too.

So that was the first punishment for the bum image.   Lady C was impressed with her work so far.  A nice deep red and lots of heat.

Next I was to be punished for annoying her and being cheeky.   For this I was face down, flat on the bed.  This is a bit easier that the position for maintenance which stretches the skin over the bum making every stroke hurt like hell.   She started with the wooden paddle and just like the other implements so far had me squirming out of the way almost immediately.   Satisfied that the paddle had done its work she picked up HOH Strap and announcing that if I couldn’t stay in position she would restrain me and start over.

I was looking to my left and could see that determined look and feel the hand in the small of my back to keep me where she wanted.  Then the strokes.   She was putting quite a bit of effort into each stroke – a lot harder than maintenance – and each was landed squarely across both cheeks on the sweet spot.   After the first six I was definately feeling the need to avoid the blows, but these slow hard strokes can be easier to keep in position for than the quick fire ones that come raining down.

Eventually she stopped.  I’m unsure if she intended stopping after that particular stroke or if it was the fact that it slightly wrapped further around my cheek causing me to jump.  Either way she stopped, I hope it wasn’t because of that last stroke wrapping and she had a good look and feel and this time she was really impressed by the warmth and colour.   “You’re going to feel this tomorrow at work when you sit down and remember this punishment”.   She must have been satisfied by the overall result as she took several photographs which I’ll put up on the gallery.

With the real punishment over, it was now time for the hugs and kisses and to make ammends for the bum wallpaper by performing some worship of C’s bum and put an enigmatic smile on her face.

Another Spanking Challenge


I’ve mentioned the spanking challenge a few times, this post, and this one describes the idea, and this one tells how I wimped out.   After last week’s punishment when HOH had me tied over the benchboard and had paddled my ass I thought that this might be the way that I could do a bit better at the spanking challenge.

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Punishment Part 3 – This is going to hurt


After HOH strapped my hands I was sent to retrieve the benchboard and some implements.

The benchboard is not so severe a position as the C’s standard on my hands and knees with ass in the air, but it does allow restraints to be used and that means I cannot escape the punishing strokes.

The main punishment started with ten strokes with Loopy Johnny followed by ten with the 3H Tawse.   Further batches of Loopy Johnny and the 3H Tawse were given 6 strokes at a time. HOH took her time and every stroke landed on the desired target.  After each batch C examined her handiwork and judging by the mumbles she was pleased with her efforts.

After a couple of more batches C decided that my ass had had enough of Loopy Johnny and Mr Tawse.   This meant, however, that it was time for C to have a bit of fun and “colour in” any whitish parts with a vigourous paddling using her Boudoir Paddle.   This really got me wriggling especially when several strokes landed in the same place and the top of the thighs.   It was soon over and after all the equipment was put away we had lots more cuddles and hugs.

I think C really enjoyed seeing me wriggling when she was paddling as she looked really smug when she had finished.

Being paddled over the benchboard gave me an idea for another spanking, but that’s going to be the subject of the next post.

A

 

Not Quite A Sore Bum


Yesterday I suggested to HOH that there was an outstanding punishment and that it was now Punishment Time.   HOH accepted the reminder and presently I was invited to go and lie across the benchboard. Continue reading

Standing Instructions


Well actually some of them are bend over instructions.   C and I have a list of standing instructions, they are kinda like rules except they are meant to be flexible and easy to change. Continue reading