An All Over Spanking


Then plan yesterday was for a nice spanking.  Start with an over the knee hand spanking and then changing to paddle and hairbrush and when getting to much revert to the hand again.

That’s not what I got 😦    I exceeded my quota of beer at the pub and Lady C dispatched me to get the 2H Tawse and gave me six quick strokes on the bare bum.   Then she realised that they were meant to be on the hands so I was sent to fetch the more nasty 3H Tawse.    She gave me three on each hand whilst lecturing me and saying I would be getting lots more punishments and lots less beer.    Time taken to go upstairs, fetch the tawse, use the tawse, take it back and return back downstairs was less than 3 minutes 30 seconds.  Who says there’s no time to deliver a spanking?  If the Tawse in the hall cupboard was requested it would have been a lot quicker.

Back to the main spanking though.   I wanted a bit of ritual and requested that I was blindfolded before having the necessary clothing removed.   Then it was time to lay over those silky thighs for the hand spanking, She must have taken off some layers too because that was bare lap I was feeling.   After a bit it was onto the boudoir paddle.   That’s so much easier once there’s been a warmup, although six strokes with a tawse on the bare is hardly a nice warmup.  After the boudoir paddle it was time for the hairbrush and on it went for a couple of minutes.

She then lead me upstairs, still blindfolded, where She announced there was to be a mystery implement of Her choice.   I lay on the bed as She encouraged me to stick my bum out.  “Come on”, she says, “show me how much you like me spanking you”.   “Come on you can get it higher than that”.     Little did I realise at the time that it was not for my benefit but for Hers.  A stuck out bum is way easier for her to spank hard.   It was just at the point when she had stopped rubbing and pushing me down to arch my back that the big nasty wooden paddle crashed down.   Ouch, as it was laid across my cheeks.   She spanked slow and hard, then fast and furious continually telling me that I made this paddle just for Her and how I wanted Her to use it on me and it was just so perfect and it fitted her hand perfectly, was well balanced and that I knew I wanted to feel it hard.

That was the signal for her final strokes.   Six really hard ones on an already well spanked bum.   Then it was over and time to consummate the spanking.

Happy Spankings,

A

I Want A Spanking


Sometimes I crave spankings.  Nice spankings, and not the horrible punishments that the Bitch Strap is used for.   I mentioned before that Lady C does not do warm-ups and goes straight to burning, stinging throbbing pain.  Therefore I think I want one the nice spanking starting with over the knee hand spanking to gently warm the cheeks before going the next level with the paddle.  Next, a more kinkier I want her to straddle me and spank down each check until there’s a slight wriggling going on and then maybe spank a bit harder, faster, or even both.   Then to the finale with one of the lesser used straps to make the pink glow turn to red and leave me ready to consummate the spanking with a nicely reddened bum.

How do I get such a spanking?  Easy.   I just need to ask Lady C to do it for me.  She’s always happy to oblige.   However, it doesn’t always turn out how I wanted it.  She just takes advantage of the situation and does her own thing, usually heavy handed with her Mistress Strap or a nasty Tawse.   Its so much easier for her if I willingly present my bum to her than her demanding that I get into position.

I should be careful want I wish for, however secretly I do like when she takes control of a situation and enforces the FLR. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Promise Me


Promise me you’ll take care of that matter. Promise to the paddle. Yes that damned evil, leather boudoir paddle.

Grrrr. On a cold bum. That’s right Lady C doesn’t do warm-ups. It’s straight to sting. After the first stroke I’m not wanting anymore. After two more in working out of the way. Which makes her slow down and stop. Good job she didn’t tie me down and go for it.

And if I don’t live up to my promise, then it’s the butch strap next time, she says.

A

Weals and Welts


A recent conversation with Mistress revealed that she is uncomfortable with weals and welts.  When she sees the welts she thinks she has gone too far.   She likes the redness, the wriggling, just seeing my naked bum and knowing she has the power to make me go OUCH.

From my point of view the welt/weal is the trophy, a badge of honour that says that I have taken a trashing from Mistress.    Mistress needs to take them as a success – something that says she’s achieved the goal of punishing my ass as well as reliving the moment when I complain or sit down gingerly.

As usual I got the warning – “beware of what you ask for!”.    Technically I didn’t ask, just facilitated it.   So now she has to stop worrying about the state she leaves my ass in and more on concentrating on admiring her handiwork.

Its another start to a new regime.   A stricter, harsher Mistress that’s going to get things moving and ensure that things get done.   We’ve both been under par for a few months, me even longer with not enough energy to blog or to even think about sex and kink, and last weekend was the first time for a while that I felt inclined to do something.   Mistress of course took advantage and gave me a reminder with her riding crop, boudoir paddle and Mistress Strap of what to expect if I don’t conform to her rules and commands.   As always when we start out we get all sorts of obstructions in our way.  This time it was having family staying over for the week.   They’re all gone now and its time to get started with the planning again.

Happy Spankings

A

FLR Rules in Action


A very nice example of our new FLR rules in action occurred today.   Just to recap I wanted C to be the all loving, all strict, disciplining, yet sexy fun and devious Mistress and Wife.

Today I made a simple error using my not-so-smart phone and allowed the autotype feature to use the wrong form of you/you’re.

Lady C decided that she would teach me the different between the two spellings and usage with her paddle.

As though she needs an excuse to paddle my ass!

A

Implement of the Week


This will be this week’s instrument of punishment. Specially an implement will be chosen every week for My Disciplinarian to punish me. The details of the punishments have still to be worked out, but the implement of the week will be used.

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There’s a nice hook been recently installed close to our front door which will in our moments of privacy be used to hang said implement upon. It’ll be one of the first things to be seen walking into the house or navigating between lounge and kitchen.
I have selected the following implements to be available: Auntie Strap, HOH Strap, 3H Tawse, 2H Tawse, 2M Tawse, Glasgow Strap, Dominator Strap, Senior Dragon Cane, Loopy Johnny and Boudoir Paddle.
I’ve not decided on the selection process yet. I may choose them myself, Lady C may get to choose, or I may even be open to suggestions from the readers here. The implement will be changed at the same time as we change our bathroom towels, so that should be easy to remember.
The first implement will be the auntie strap, but before it can be put into use I’m going to need to do some thinking about the punishments. Of course, these are my rules for me, and in no way restrict Lady C from doing her own thing in addition to them. I would hate to think that I was overruling her 😉

A Little Reminder


For a week we had a trial of something slightly different in the DD campaign.  HOH would provide a “reminder” about our tasks and goals for that day.  That reminder took the form of laying across HOH’s knee whilst she nagged and questioned about what we were going to achieve or, in the case of the pub, not going to do.  With a tautly stretched bot and the boudoir paddle applied in time to the nagging it got the message across and overall was a success.

We been talking about this again this week and how its so much better than maintenance. Actually I think its maintenance albiet under a different name.   The idea behind it is that it is preventative and helps to achieve the goals by encouragement before failing.  It works for both of us as it helps us remember every day what our goals are. Lady C is also thinking about ceasing maintenance in favour of daily reminders.

Last night we had another reminder session.   HOH also wanted me to choose the implement – “not for me to choose My Darling HOH, but it has to be a nagging implement”.   She flirted with some of the nasty ones, but ended up with the red heart shaped paddle and got off very lightly with a massage more than a spanking.   Compare that to six with her HOH strap.

Question is should HOH use her strap for daily reminders or continue with a lessor implement like the Boudoir Paddle or should it be on a day by day basis?

Unfortunately we overdid it a bit last night and managed to conviently forget our goals and targets for the day.  But it was a special occasion and HOH did state that she was being kind.  I’m sure that mistake will not be made again.

A

International Consensual Spanking Day


Saturday 8th August was International Consensual Spanking Day I read on the web – here to be precise.  I told Lady C about it and asked if she wished I could spank her naked ass consensually – she declined 😦

I offered mine to her for a spanking in a style that I wanted and she jumped at the chance.   Lying naked on the bed with Lady C sitting astride me with the boudoir paddle.   Just the perfect position for her to paddle my ass long and hard.    And she did enjoying every moment especially when I was trying to wriggle and swirm and just couldn’t get out of the way of the nasty little paddle.

In a DD relationship, aren’t all spankings consensual?   I gave my consent to Lady C a long while ago that she could spank and punish my ass any time, any place and make it memorable.  What’s the different on Spanking Day?  For us, nothing really.   Just a change of position and implement and be able to say we celebrated International Consensual Spanking Day and raised our glasses for a toast.

If you did so too, hope you had as much fun as we did.

A

A Bad Day at the Office


C had a bad day at the office, so I jumped in the car and went into town to bring her home.  On the way home I suggested that if she wanted she could vent her anger on my ass once we got home.   There was only one condition –  she could only use the paddles.   It would be a paddling for every instance of annoyance or rant that she mentioned.

By the time we got home and ready for paddling, it was apparent that there was going to be a busy night.  Actually there wasn’t going to be enough time, so we settled for sparodic paddling every time she felt like it.  And that how it was, naked all night and almost non-stop paddling.

Until tonight…

A

Determination


Lady C performed another two doses of maintenance the other morning and then carried on.   “And these two strokes are for being cheeky via email, and three for distracting me when I was trying to iron”.

Mistress Strap

Mistress Strap

Standard maintenance is six strokes with the evil HOH strap.    If maintenance is six strokes, shouldn’t a punishment be harder, longer?   At least the same?   Not that many strokes with this particular strap are needed to get the point over.

Anyway, I pointed this fact out to HOH.   I also pointed out about another infraction that she not bothered to note down or punish for.   That particular offence was having a background image on my tablet computer of a cute bum which was not C’s.   It reminds me of hers and I especially like the look over the shoulder as that is so Lady C.

She was mildly hurt by it and again I asked was this not one of the fundamental reasons for DD and doesn’t a spanked bot displace that hurt and clear the air?

The upshot of all this is that it kinda annoyed her a bit, not so much the perving at bums on tablet but telling her she was not doing discipline correctly. So when I got home Lady C was waiting for me in the bedroom and was in a more determined mood.   I would get a sore bot.  It would be very red, very stingy, and very memorable and she would not be stopping until it was so.   C has a very easy going attitute most of the time and that includes when she’s swinging straps around.  It’s almost that she doesn’t want to hurt me and just be nice.

In a strange way when C punishes hard I feel more loved than at any other time.   For a start we would not be doing this if we didn’t have a loving relationship and when its all over we ALWAYS hug.

Back to the pending punishments.    She made me fetch ten implements and lay them in front of her – the HOH Strap, Dominator Strap, Cane, Glasgow Strap, Loopy Johnny, Boudoir and wooden paddles and the three Lochgelly tawses.  “Pick two and I’ll pick two” she commands.

Boudoir PaddleI picked the dominator strap and the boudoir paddle.  She asks why I picked these two particular implements.  The dominator strap is by far the hardest and heavest implement that we have and with very little effort it has devastating results.  The boudoir paddle, by contrast, is probably one of the lightest.  Don’t get me wrong it is still very capable of producing sting.  That was chosen for its ability to colour in the rest of the bum that the strap missed or can’t easily access.   My choice was accepted even though she finds the strap quite ackward and heavy to hold, however I think the attraction of lots of sting and heat with little effort won the argument.

Her choice was her favourite HOH Strap and the wooden paddle I made recently.   She likes the paddle. It has a nice soft feel, an easy grip handle and is well balanced.  It also produces a lot of sting, not that she’s ever had it touch her bum.  The HOH Strap was no big surprise, after all it is her favourite and she knows that theres a lot in reserve beyond the standard six that she gives for maintenance.

Now it is time for my bottom to be bared.   She eventually chooses that I should get on my elbows and knees on the floor and she will stand astride me so that she can strap down my cheeks.   “How many strokes do you think?”, she asks.   “Never mind, I’ll finish when I’m happy with the result”.

I’m sure she could strap harder if she wanted, but she’s after accuracy and wants every stroke to count.  I didn’t count the strokes but it did not take too long (4 strokes) before I tried to wriggle out of the way.  There were strokes to the middle of one cheek, strokes to the other and then a few covered the middle making for a mostly all over covering.  I can’t remember how many times she ordered me back into position so that the strap could find its target again.

Next came the boudoir paddle and in the same position, it was used briskly on my already burning bum cheeks.  These were hard strokes, nothing like the power of the dominator strap but I could still feel them and before long I was wriggling to try and avoid these too.

So that was the first punishment for the bum image.   Lady C was impressed with her work so far.  A nice deep red and lots of heat.

Next I was to be punished for annoying her and being cheeky.   For this I was face down, flat on the bed.  This is a bit easier that the position for maintenance which stretches the skin over the bum making every stroke hurt like hell.   She started with the wooden paddle and just like the other implements so far had me squirming out of the way almost immediately.   Satisfied that the paddle had done its work she picked up HOH Strap and announcing that if I couldn’t stay in position she would restrain me and start over.

I was looking to my left and could see that determined look and feel the hand in the small of my back to keep me where she wanted.  Then the strokes.   She was putting quite a bit of effort into each stroke – a lot harder than maintenance – and each was landed squarely across both cheeks on the sweet spot.   After the first six I was definately feeling the need to avoid the blows, but these slow hard strokes can be easier to keep in position for than the quick fire ones that come raining down.

Eventually she stopped.  I’m unsure if she intended stopping after that particular stroke or if it was the fact that it slightly wrapped further around my cheek causing me to jump.  Either way she stopped, I hope it wasn’t because of that last stroke wrapping and she had a good look and feel and this time she was really impressed by the warmth and colour.   “You’re going to feel this tomorrow at work when you sit down and remember this punishment”.   She must have been satisfied by the overall result as she took several photographs which I’ll put up on the gallery.

With the real punishment over, it was now time for the hugs and kisses and to make ammends for the bum wallpaper by performing some worship of C’s bum and put an enigmatic smile on her face.