Caning Practice


I got this nice cane for Lady C’s Christmas present.   She barely used it at all in January, so I offered her my bottom to her to practice so she could become more proficient in its use.

She took me at my word and almost every night bares my ass and does some practice.  As it was to be practice I said I would give her feedback.   The thing that normally reminds her is when she sees the implement of the week hanging up.

The first night was very light taps and I encouraged her to try some trial swishes in the air.  Wow, some of them caused me to wince just looking at them.   She’s steadily got harder and after a half dozen can get me wriggling out of the way of them.  One thing she hasn’t decided on yet is whether to do a full swing with follow through or stop the swing short of my ass and let the momentum and bend of the cane to do the business.   We’re open to suggestions as to the best method or other tips as neither of us have had any experience of the cane outwith our bedroom.   If I had a complaint, it would be that she has a tendency to cane too high up my bottom and when she does strike the lower part it stings so much more.  When she goes really low and catches the crease between ass cheek and thigh she usually apologizes to me – not very Mistress!

She’s not quite managed to get to that next step and cause welts and weals on my ass, but it won’t be long.   This cane is longer and thicker than the previous one and I can feel the difference without much effort on C’s part. Eventually it’ll be able to take it’s place in our collection of punishment implements.

A Christmas Gift For Mistress


In addition to the vanilla gifts, Lady C was given a spanking gift. Of all the gifts I purchased for her, this one was the first to be wrapped up and placed under the Christmas tree.

It was interesing that it was the first gift that she requested demanded on Christmas morning.  It didn’t take her long to remove it from the packing and was quite delighted when she found it was a dragon cane with a lovely soft, purple lambskin handle.  A couple of test swishes later confirmed that she was pleased with it.

It took until the following day until Lady C used it on me and even then it was five light strokes.  She needs practice she tells me, and I imagine its going to be real practice on my ass and not the cushions that she means.

Anyway hope you all had a lovely Christmas and got presents that you like too.

A

Super Strict, Swift and Silent


That’s our latest venture in Domestic Discipline, otherwise known as SSS DD.    Its that time of year when we have almost permanent house guests and even getting the house to ourselves for 5 minutes for maintenance is impossible.  Therefore we have thought up the Super Strict, Swift and Silent.

The straps and paddles make a lot of noise and it would be heard by inquisitive souls, therefore they are out.  Loopy Johnny is relatively quiet and good for a quick couple of lashes.   The small OTK cane is also quite quiet as is the crop.  We haven’t used either of there for a while.    The tawse on outstretched hands is another although it makes a slight noise – a noise that could be disguised by the TV or radio.  The other major benefit is that it requires no undressing making it very swift to administer.

Swift was taken to mean, that any infraction was to be dealt with almost immediately.  Now if in company that’s not always easy to do, however although we have guests we find ourselves in the back of the house in the dining room or kitchen alone quite a bit.  For these occasions, Lady C can do some quick CBT, or its only ten steps out the french windows to the shed where it is possible to make slightly more noise.   And who’s going to notice spanking noises coming from a shed?   We’ve placed a strap out there just ready for use – I thought it was almost in clear view, but Lady C took the best part of 15 minutes to find it.   The challenge was if she could find it, she could use it.  Still waiting for that to happen.

So that’s the swift and the silent.  The strict was a desire for Lady C to take note of absolutely everything I say or do and be able to find some fault with it.   Lady C is still not as strict as I would like sometimes, there’s always that thing where she wants to be nice to me after a bad day at work.  We’ll need to work on that one.

So today we find ourselves exploring the quiet and private places in our house with a list of outstanding punishments that need to be addressed.   What better way to spend a rainy day?

A

Birthday Spanking


Lady C’s birthday is nearly on us again and I’m wondering what I should give her.

Obviously they’ll be a card and very likely a nice bottle of wine.  We might even go out to celebrate.   But what should I get as a present?

A crueller cane, a stingier strap, a tinglier tawse, powerful paddle?

Hmmm, whilst she would happily accept any or all of these on any other day of the year I don’t think she’ll appreciate them for her birthday.

I’ve got some ideas, but I think in additional to that I’m should “present”,  to her so that she can have fun giving a birthday spanking.   Now how old did I say she was again – hope she doesn’t pick a stroke for every year with the nasty strap.

A Course in Caning


The one implement that C is not particularly competant with is the cane.  We’re going to change that this year by getting her to practice a bit (not on my ass) and in a few months you might see some changes in the punishments that are served. Continue reading

Black Leather Slapper Retirement


No more black leather slapper. Honestly, it was a toy from a sex boutique and was never designed to properly spank a bare bottom.
I mentioned in my last post here that I thought it was unsuitable and wanted C to confirm this. She hasn’t done anything about so therefore I need to take the initiative and make sure something is done about it.

By midnight tonight C has to make a decision on the black slapper, failure to make a decision means that she will get two slapper strokes tomorrow morning or a single tawse stroke. I really want HOH to be decisive!

C’s choices will be the following:

1. Don’t really make a choice and get 6 strokes from the black slapper every time it is used on my bum
2. Demand that the black slapper is to be used exclusively on her bum and no other implement is allowed except my hands
3. The black slapper and, for more serious infractions, the tawses will be used on her bum in addition to my hands

Of course, retiring the slapper from discipline or maintenance of my bum does not stop her from the light slaps that she uses on my balls – well I wouldn’t want anything harsher there would I?

The choice shouldn’t be too difficult to make. However, if the black slapper is retired from active duty providing convenient and quick spanking of my bum what should be the replacement? One implement in particular springs to mind, another would be a worthy standin. Do you think you can select them from this list?

C has to make public her choice (i.e. put a comment up here or devote an post on the subject) AND have the replacement implement picked in order to satisfy my deadline of midnight tonight, otherwise its going to red in the morning.

I will permit her one last outing of the black slapper and that is a retirement spanking. There’s conditions on this usage too. 1 – C has to make it known to me that she intends to use it at the retirement spanking, and 2 – a spanking of equal strokes with the replacement implement has to follow. In other words an out with the old, in with the new statement. Maybe this way she will see how ineffective this toy is compared to our professional instruments of discipline.

Domestic Discipline Total Obedience


I’m proposing a day or even two of DD Total Obedience for C.  “What is it?”  I can hear her ask later tonight when she hears about it.  Some would call it boot camp, some would call it BSDM, others just plain DD. Continue reading

Spanking Machine


Its been a concept that I’ve thought of for a number of years now – a machine that can deliver spankings.   It would always deliver the perfect spanking.  Just dial in the strength, duration and speed and strap yourself in and the machine will deliver.  No extra strokes for moving, no getting off lightly if the HOH thinks enough strokes have been administered.  Just a perfect spanking from a machine with no emotions and perfect aim. Continue reading