A few weeks ago I talked about things I like to hear during a spanking. This post is about the non speech things.
Having Mistress remove the last layer of clothing is good. Feeling hands slipped into each side of your waistband and pull down says she means business.
Being tapped on the bum or hips by the cane to adjust the position is always necessary.
Seeing an implement selected and out ready for use gets the heart beating.
Pointing at the bed, chair or wherever the spanking is to take place.
Sometimes seeing Mistress clothed normally for a punishment. For fun, a pair of stiletto heels is a must.
Mistress must give the air of authority and give the impression that the spanking is effortless to her and there’s plenty in reserve. There must be an air of simplistic elegance and totally relaxation.
Playing with the implement. Canes and crops should be flexed and given trial swishes. Tawses and straps should be held in both ends and flexed or held around Mistresses own ass, or around the neck. Paddles can be slapped against the other hand and tapped against any hard surface.
The hand on the small of the back that says you ain’t getting up yet.
I’m sure there’s more, but that all I can think of at this point. Do you have any?
Recipe: a brisk warm-up, the main event, and 6 of the best.
The brisk warm up is not quite the nice easy start to make your bum heat gradually and be more receptive to the main event. Think of it more as a nasty spanking to get you quickly to the point where you want it to stop so that every subsequent stroke in the main event will be quite ouch.
The main event could be a strapping, tawsing, caning or paddling. And then just when you think it’s all over, there’s a six of the best still to come. Each stroke to be hard and stingy with Lady C nagging just to make sure the message has got through. The six is just a title and doesn’t actually reflect the number of strokes that will be delivered as every spanking will be tailored to suit the level of punishment required.
So the punishments has mostly been described, it’s time to give some thought about my goals and rules. That’ll be the next post in My Disciplinarian series.
We’ve been watching Star Trek movies recently and the final one in the set is Nemesis. Not one of my favourites as I’m an old fashioned original Trekkie, but none-the-less it has to be watched.
So that got me thinking we should have a Nemesis themed evening. I can think of a few Nemeses, most of them are made of leather and live at Lady C’s side of the bedroom 😦 I also know for certain that every single one of our implements will be Lady C’s as well as both my hands.
I had a quick look at the dictionary and found several definitions that are interesting from the DD perspective: The Greek goddess of retributive justice; One that inflicts retribution or vengeance.
Homework is now complete and I’m now able to say that Lady C is my Nemesis, and that the following implements are Nemeses: HOH Strap, Auntie Strap, Dominator Strap. I’ve got a couple of suggestions for Lady C’s Nemeses but I’m going to discuss them with her.
What’s your Nemesis?
In this post I mentioned that it would be interesting if there was a strap or implement in every room. Well this weekend HOH has placed a spanking implement in every room in the house. These will be used instantly for absolutely anything that displeases HOH.
As soon as I got home from work last night, HOH dragged me to the family bathroom to point out that I hadn’t quite reached her standards with regard to towels. Almost immediately afterwards I discovered this is the hiding place of the small red heart shaped paddle.
There is a two tailed tawse hanging in the kitchen along with the rest of the cooking utensils – not been used yet. The humbler is in the lounge and was in action for half an hour last night as Lady C took exception to some comments that I made. Seemingly there’s other implements hidden in the room judging as HOH threatened to put one of them across my ass whilst humbled.
The only other impement that’s been located is HOH’s strap. This was in the bedroom and was used when Lady C noted that I grudged taking her a coffee in bed this morning. Update – the Glasgow Strap has now been put to use as HOH spotted me writing this post and determined that it mentioned her and I didn’t ask specific permission to publish it.
I wonder if any of these implements would have been used if they were still stuck in their toybox? Probably not.
So why are we doing this? I think it means that HOH feels much more like a HOH and keeps on top of the discipline elements. And when she does that then it means that I get that constant reminder who’s in charge. Apart from that its always fun when Lady C goes all dominant 🙂
Lady C keeps a doll in our bedroom. It’s a woman thing keeping dolls and soft toys around the place.
Just spotted this morning where one of our tawses ended up – draped over its lap waiting for a naughty bottom to do the same.
That’s what Lady C demanded of me last night when I got home from yet another business trip.
She started with 6 strokes with her bitch strap for the missed maintenance before picking up a tawse. Maintenance felt a bit harder than usual as she was a bit annoyed with me.
The tawse confirmed this when she just kept giving more and more strokes nagging as she went.
Eventually she stopped. Ouch these were definitely not fun strokes, they were meant to hurt and some have left marks where the tails lashed into my sensitive cheeks.
Lady C’s birthday is nearly on us again and I’m wondering what I should give her.
Obviously they’ll be a card and very likely a nice bottle of wine. We might even go out to celebrate. But what should I get as a present?
A crueller cane, a stingier strap, a tinglier tawse, powerful paddle?
Hmmm, whilst she would happily accept any or all of these on any other day of the year I don’t think she’ll appreciate them for her birthday.
I’ve got some ideas, but I think in additional to that I’m should “present”, to her so that she can have fun giving a birthday spanking. Now how old did I say she was again – hope she doesn’t pick a stroke for every year with the nasty strap.
We went two to three months where we couldn’t have any DD or maintenance. HOH promised that she would be taking note and the punishment would be meted out at the earliest convenience.
Well that earliest convenience has passed and the grand total of punishments came to 2 strokes of the tawse – one to each hand.
Tawsed hands can be a bit of an ordeal, but both strokes did not land squarely and I expected that HOH would repeat them, but no. All in all it was a bit of a let off. Normally a hand tawsing is two, even three strokes per hand and these usually do connect and generate a lot of sting.
But for the complete period that accumulated punishment was a single stroke to each hand. I can recall her saying quite a few times, “just you wait, you’ll pay for that” but cannot remember the circumstances or the occasion. I must have been such a good boy!
My Darling HOH, I am really sorry for upsetting you last week and making you cry. We haven’t really talked about the full circumstances of it yet but I feel that the punishment you gave me fell short of any upset that you experienced.
I would like to be justly punished for this mishap and I know that the reason I hurt you so much is because of our love for each other. I can also understand that you were lenient with the punishment because of your love for me and wanting us to have quality time together. It will be hard for you to administer a long or hard punishment until your arm fully recovers, however I suggest that my bottom is punished under your instruction.
Can I suggest that the punishment of my bottom occurs shortly after you finish your work tonight but before I take you for dinner or have pre-dinner drinks. Dinner is our celebration of being together after all these weeks and months being kept apart for all the usual reasons.
Sorry, my darling,
After HOH strapped my hands I was sent to retrieve the benchboard and some implements.
The benchboard is not so severe a position as the C’s standard on my hands and knees with ass in the air, but it does allow restraints to be used and that means I cannot escape the punishing strokes.
The main punishment started with ten strokes with Loopy Johnny followed by ten with the 3H Tawse. Further batches of Loopy Johnny and the 3H Tawse were given 6 strokes at a time. HOH took her time and every stroke landed on the desired target. After each batch C examined her handiwork and judging by the mumbles she was pleased with her efforts.
After a couple of more batches C decided that my ass had had enough of Loopy Johnny and Mr Tawse. This meant, however, that it was time for C to have a bit of fun and “colour in” any whitish parts with a vigourous paddling using her Boudoir Paddle. This really got me wriggling especially when several strokes landed in the same place and the top of the thighs. It was soon over and after all the equipment was put away we had lots more cuddles and hugs.
I think C really enjoyed seeing me wriggling when she was paddling as she looked really smug when she had finished.
Being paddled over the benchboard gave me an idea for another spanking, but that’s going to be the subject of the next post.
“Go and fetch the tawse”, HOH commanded. Now give it to me.