Then plan yesterday was for a nice spanking. Start with an over the knee hand spanking and then changing to paddle and hairbrush and when getting to much revert to the hand again.
That’s not what I got 😦 I exceeded my quota of beer at the pub and Lady C dispatched me to get the 2H Tawse and gave me six quick strokes on the bare bum. Then she realised that they were meant to be on the hands so I was sent to fetch the more nasty 3H Tawse. She gave me three on each hand whilst lecturing me and saying I would be getting lots more punishments and lots less beer. Time taken to go upstairs, fetch the tawse, use the tawse, take it back and return back downstairs was less than 3 minutes 30 seconds. Who says there’s no time to deliver a spanking? If the Tawse in the hall cupboard was requested it would have been a lot quicker.
Back to the main spanking though. I wanted a bit of ritual and requested that I was blindfolded before having the necessary clothing removed. Then it was time to lay over those silky thighs for the hand spanking, She must have taken off some layers too because that was bare lap I was feeling. After a bit it was onto the boudoir paddle. That’s so much easier once there’s been a warmup, although six strokes with a tawse on the bare is hardly a nice warmup. After the boudoir paddle it was time for the hairbrush and on it went for a couple of minutes.
She then lead me upstairs, still blindfolded, where She announced there was to be a mystery implement of Her choice. I lay on the bed as She encouraged me to stick my bum out. “Come on”, she says, “show me how much you like me spanking you”. “Come on you can get it higher than that”. Little did I realise at the time that it was not for my benefit but for Hers. A stuck out bum is way easier for her to spank hard. It was just at the point when she had stopped rubbing and pushing me down to arch my back that the big nasty wooden paddle crashed down. Ouch, as it was laid across my cheeks. She spanked slow and hard, then fast and furious continually telling me that I made this paddle just for Her and how I wanted Her to use it on me and it was just so perfect and it fitted her hand perfectly, was well balanced and that I knew I wanted to feel it hard.
That was the signal for her final strokes. Six really hard ones on an already well spanked bum. Then it was over and time to consummate the spanking.
Sometimes I crave spankings. Nice spankings, and not the horrible punishments that the Bitch Strap is used for. I mentioned before that Lady C does not do warm-ups and goes straight to burning, stinging throbbing pain. Therefore I think I want one the nice spanking starting with over the knee hand spanking to gently warm the cheeks before going the next level with the paddle. Next, a more kinkier I want her to straddle me and spank down each check until there’s a slight wriggling going on and then maybe spank a bit harder, faster, or even both. Then to the finale with one of the lesser used straps to make the pink glow turn to red and leave me ready to consummate the spanking with a nicely reddened bum.
How do I get such a spanking? Easy. I just need to ask Lady C to do it for me. She’s always happy to oblige. However, it doesn’t always turn out how I wanted it. She just takes advantage of the situation and does her own thing, usually heavy handed with her Mistress Strap or a nasty Tawse. Its so much easier for her if I willingly present my bum to her than her demanding that I get into position.
I should be careful want I wish for, however secretly I do like when she takes control of a situation and enforces the FLR. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.
A few weeks ago I talked about things I like to hear during a spanking. This post is about the non speech things.
Having Mistress remove the last layer of clothing is good. Feeling hands slipped into each side of your waistband and pull down says she means business.
Being tapped on the bum or hips by the cane to adjust the position is always necessary.
Seeing an implement selected and out ready for use gets the heart beating.
Pointing at the bed, chair or wherever the spanking is to take place.
Sometimes seeing Mistress clothed normally for a punishment. For fun, a pair of stiletto heels is a must.
Mistress must give the air of authority and give the impression that the spanking is effortless to her and there’s plenty in reserve. There must be an air of simplistic elegance and totally relaxation.
Playing with the implement. Canes and crops should be flexed and given trial swishes. Tawses and straps should be held in both ends and flexed or held around Mistresses own ass, or around the neck. Paddles can be slapped against the other hand and tapped against any hard surface.
The hand on the small of the back that says you ain’t getting up yet.
I’m sure there’s more, but that all I can think of at this point. Do you have any?
Recipe: a brisk warm-up, the main event, and 6 of the best.
The brisk warm up is not quite the nice easy start to make your bum heat gradually and be more receptive to the main event. Think of it more as a nasty spanking to get you quickly to the point where you want it to stop so that every subsequent stroke in the main event will be quite ouch.
The main event could be a strapping, tawsing, caning or paddling. And then just when you think it’s all over, there’s a six of the best still to come. Each stroke to be hard and stingy with Lady C nagging just to make sure the message has got through. The six is just a title and doesn’t actually reflect the number of strokes that will be delivered as every spanking will be tailored to suit the level of punishment required.
So the punishments has mostly been described, it’s time to give some thought about my goals and rules. That’ll be the next post in My Disciplinarian series.
We’ve been watching Star Trek movies recently and the final one in the set is Nemesis. Not one of my favourites as I’m an old fashioned original Trekkie, but none-the-less it has to be watched.
So that got me thinking we should have a Nemesis themed evening. I can think of a few Nemeses, most of them are made of leather and live at Lady C’s side of the bedroom 😦 I also know for certain that every single one of our implements will be Lady C’s as well as both my hands.
I had a quick look at the dictionary and found several definitions that are interesting from the DD perspective: The Greek goddess of retributive justice; One that inflicts retribution or vengeance.
Homework is now complete and I’m now able to say that Lady C is my Nemesis, and that the following implements are Nemeses: HOH Strap, Auntie Strap, Dominator Strap. I’ve got a couple of suggestions for Lady C’s Nemeses but I’m going to discuss them with her.
What’s your Nemesis?
In this post I mentioned that it would be interesting if there was a strap or implement in every room. Well this weekend HOH has placed a spanking implement in every room in the house. These will be used instantly for absolutely anything that displeases HOH.
As soon as I got home from work last night, HOH dragged me to the family bathroom to point out that I hadn’t quite reached her standards with regard to towels. Almost immediately afterwards I discovered this is the hiding place of the small red heart shaped paddle.
There is a two tailed tawse hanging in the kitchen along with the rest of the cooking utensils – not been used yet. The humbler is in the lounge and was in action for half an hour last night as Lady C took exception to some comments that I made. Seemingly there’s other implements hidden in the room judging as HOH threatened to put one of them across my ass whilst humbled.
The only other impement that’s been located is HOH’s strap. This was in the bedroom and was used when Lady C noted that I grudged taking her a coffee in bed this morning. Update – the Glasgow Strap has now been put to use as HOH spotted me writing this post and determined that it mentioned her and I didn’t ask specific permission to publish it.
I wonder if any of these implements would have been used if they were still stuck in their toybox? Probably not.
So why are we doing this? I think it means that HOH feels much more like a HOH and keeps on top of the discipline elements. And when she does that then it means that I get that constant reminder who’s in charge. Apart from that its always fun when Lady C goes all dominant 🙂
Lady C keeps a doll in our bedroom. It’s a woman thing keeping dolls and soft toys around the place.
Just spotted this morning where one of our tawses ended up – draped over its lap waiting for a naughty bottom to do the same.
That’s what Lady C demanded of me last night when I got home from yet another business trip.
She started with 6 strokes with her bitch strap for the missed maintenance before picking up a tawse. Maintenance felt a bit harder than usual as she was a bit annoyed with me.
The tawse confirmed this when she just kept giving more and more strokes nagging as she went.
Eventually she stopped. Ouch these were definitely not fun strokes, they were meant to hurt and some have left marks where the tails lashed into my sensitive cheeks.
Lady C’s birthday is nearly on us again and I’m wondering what I should give her.
Obviously they’ll be a card and very likely a nice bottle of wine. We might even go out to celebrate. But what should I get as a present?
A crueller cane, a stingier strap, a tinglier tawse, powerful paddle?
Hmmm, whilst she would happily accept any or all of these on any other day of the year I don’t think she’ll appreciate them for her birthday.
I’ve got some ideas, but I think in additional to that I’m should “present”, to her so that she can have fun giving a birthday spanking. Now how old did I say she was again – hope she doesn’t pick a stroke for every year with the nasty strap.
We went two to three months where we couldn’t have any DD or maintenance. HOH promised that she would be taking note and the punishment would be meted out at the earliest convenience.
Well that earliest convenience has passed and the grand total of punishments came to 2 strokes of the tawse – one to each hand.
Tawsed hands can be a bit of an ordeal, but both strokes did not land squarely and I expected that HOH would repeat them, but no. All in all it was a bit of a let off. Normally a hand tawsing is two, even three strokes per hand and these usually do connect and generate a lot of sting.
But for the complete period that accumulated punishment was a single stroke to each hand. I can recall her saying quite a few times, “just you wait, you’ll pay for that” but cannot remember the circumstances or the occasion. I must have been such a good boy!
My Darling HOH, I am really sorry for upsetting you last week and making you cry. We haven’t really talked about the full circumstances of it yet but I feel that the punishment you gave me fell short of any upset that you experienced.
I would like to be justly punished for this mishap and I know that the reason I hurt you so much is because of our love for each other. I can also understand that you were lenient with the punishment because of your love for me and wanting us to have quality time together. It will be hard for you to administer a long or hard punishment until your arm fully recovers, however I suggest that my bottom is punished under your instruction.
Can I suggest that the punishment of my bottom occurs shortly after you finish your work tonight but before I take you for dinner or have pre-dinner drinks. Dinner is our celebration of being together after all these weeks and months being kept apart for all the usual reasons.
Sorry, my darling,