Seven Deadly Sins – Day 1 – Lust

After a long while working away I’ve returned and to celebrate Lady C has prepared seven days of fun which she has titled The Seven Deadly Sins v The Seven Virtues.   Read all about them here The idea is that each day we have one sin and one virtue with Lady C getting the fun bits and me getting the nastier ones.

Last night we started with Lust and Chastity.   Lady C obviously gave hersef a Lust activity and I got the chastity.   The chasity part means that I was locked in one of our chastity devices – the CB6000s to be exact.   Lust was Lady C to lustfully paddle my ass.  The choice of paddle was selected at random by a spin and the homemade wooden paddle was the selection.

That put a grin on Lady C’s face – this is realy going to hurt she smirked.

She started off briskly paddling my ass in the hands and knees position and it wasn’t long before I wriggled my ass out of the firing line.  At this point we stopped and cuddled for a while before she asked if I though, truthfully, if I’d been paddled lustfully.  Unfortunately I had to say that I didn’t consider it to be a lustful paddling.  She agreed and we spent several minutes thinking of a position to paddle me in.

Eventually I suggested that I bend over the bed and that Lady C sits astride me on the lower back.  We’ve tried this position before and it has many benefits for the spanker.   Namely there is unrestricted access to the ass for spanking down the cheeks and its impossible to avoid the spanks.   It is possible to wriggle and Lady C really likes it when she gets me wriggling, however I cannot wriggle out of the way of the spanks.

We chose a safe phrase for me to utter when I’d had enough – “Lady C is all powerfull” or something to that effect.  Normally we don’t have a safe word as my ass gets punished until Lady C is satisfied.   She started with the paddle again and briskly delivered swats to my cheeks covering all my ass.   Again it didn’t take long before I was wriggling like crazy and wanting it to stop.   I managed to get through some more before I choked out that Lady C is all powerful and she stopped.

Wow, she said, look at the state of your ass.   It was very hot and I could feel the glow for the rest of the night in a pub and restaurant.  Even this morning there was a residual glow.  We were going to have a follow up spanking when we got back home, but we managed to get too drunk and feel asleep – not very rock and roll is it?

Today is Gluttony and Temperance and I’ll write about them later.

Updates on My Dicktator

I’ve made some tweaks to my Chastity Device or as we call it here, Dicktator.   It now feels more comfortable, whilst more restricting and at the same time is performing better.   What did I do?

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Do I Need A New Dicktator?

We currently have two chastity devices, a CB6000 and a Birdlocked Neo – OK they’re actually mine.   Without repeating myself, this page describes the relative merits of each.  Do I need another?
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Dicktator Diary 2 – Another 48 Hours

It’s now more than 4 days since C fitted a chastity device aka Dicktator to me.   In my last post I talked about the first 48 hours, this post is about the subsequent 48 hours.

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A Year of Domestic Discipline

Yesterday was the one year anniversary of our domestic discipline agreement. As it customary with other anniversaries we thought we would do something to recognise the acheivement.

After getting dresed in suitable attire – a lovely green basque, matching knickers and a heels for C, naked except for a humbler for me – we got down to the business in hand.  First on the agenda was the renaming of the Mistress Strap – aka Bitch Strap – to become the HOH Strap.   To be used only by C at any time for maintenance and discipline.  I can no longer touch it except when explicitly commanded by C to fetch or put away.  The strap formally known as the Mistress Strap has been C’s favourite over the last year.  She finds it very easy to use and is always pleased with the results it produces in reddening by bum so it was appropriate that it was recognised.  C stated that she will continue the use the HOH Strap with as much, possibly more enthusiasm in the coming year.

Presentation ceremony of the HOH Strap over it was time for the special Annual Maintenance Spanking. We had decided that there wasn’t to be any maintenance or discipline at this ceremony, but after the results of the poll here it was obvious that our readers expected one.  The annual maintenance was in two parts.  A single stroke as hard as C could deliver was to represent the ending of the previous year with all crimes and misdemeanors having been addressed and completed.  Another single stroke even harder was to mark the start of the coming year and the to symbolise that the domestic discipline regime would continue but with stricter rules and harder punishments.  C delivered the first stroke but due to the position couldn’t get a really good swing.  The next year’s stroke didn’t connect too good either as landed a bit low catching the top of my legs – ouch.

In between strokes C applied some wax to my bum.  This was something that she’s wanted to do ever since the first days of our relationship.  She was a bit disappointed that the wax being ripped off didn’t reduce me to a blubbering wreck.  On the other hand she is pleased by the smooth lines of my rear end.  My bum is now clean and free of hair and prepared to receive punishments in the coming year.

We had some dinner accompanied by wine before retiring to the bedroom.  I then lay across C’s lap and we practiced some vows before C gave me a nice hand spanking.  We then ended the evening with some love making before heading off to the pub and complete the celebrations.  We did drink more that we intended and have possibly broken our rules on the first day of year two.  It was a special occasion and hopefully C will recognise the fact and I’ll escape a spanking.

Over dinner we had a mini review of the year past.  We could think of lots of good things that our year of domestic discipline has allowed, but we could come up with a single bad thing with the exception of my bum getting regularly roasting.  One of our DD goals is our health and in particular drinking less and losing a bit of weight.  It was really good that C managed to fit into one of her basques and looked stunning in it. If there was ever a good reason for continuing with DD then it was seeing C towering over me waring her basque and looking stern.

The last month or so we have been getting better prepared and putting more emphasis on DD within our relationship and we’re wanting to achieve more sooner. C has also recently discovered how quick and effective the alternate punishments like tawsing my hands, spanking my balls and locking me in a chastity tube are. So armed with her HOH Strap, the stricter rules and the recently added consequences it should be an interesting year ahead and most of it will be spent with my bum in the air.

Strapped Hands

Yesterday, C strapped my hands with a tawse.  First time was one stroke on each palm with the 2H Tawse, latter it was two strokes on each hand with the same tawse. Continue reading

Roasting and Toasting

Last time C was online she was about to give my ass a roasting with Loopy Johnny.  Well not that night she didn’t 🙂 Continue reading

6 Month Ass-essment

I’ve got a bit of free time on my hands today and thought since its the 1st day of the 2nd half of the year to have the Disciplined Boyfriend Blog 6 month assessment.   Continue reading

Mistress for a Day

C’s performance as head of the household has been disapointing recently.  I’ve decided on a two pronged strategy for putting her back on course.  The first angle of attack got to the seat of the probem – i.e. a spanking.  That has been administered, documented here and forgiven.  The other approach is training and in order to get her mindset back to HOH I’m going to promote her to Lady C for a 24 hour period.

For the true traditional spankos, you may want to skip the rest of this post as it contains stuff other than spankings. Lady C is a my strict Mistress who’s needs to be treated with respect, pampered, obeyed and pleased.  In return She implements a strict regime of retraints, teasing, denial, torture, rules, tasks and humiliation all enforced by Her liberal use of crops, canes, humbler, dicktator and Her treasured Mistress Strap.

The last spanking she gave was by our standards very light.  It was not rushed and uses a nice array of implements, but definately did not get to the level that she intended – “you’ll be wriggling in your seat tonight when we’re at the theatre”.   The positioning – of me – was good, however her stance when using the bitch strap and cane was wrong as the cane only punished the far end of one cheek and the bitch strap didn’t connect properly at all.  It usually makes a sound like a pistol shot and feels like a branding iron.  They are all things she needs to focus on.

We’re on holiday for the rest of the week and its unlikely that we’re going to have any guests or other interruptions.  That’s going to allow Lady C full control and probably make my life hell. There’s some home renovation projects and other tasks that we need to keep moving along and C is going to be able to push  that little bit harder as my expense.

Here goes



In a previous post I mentioned the schedule of authorised punishments.  In this series of posts I will introduce the various implements.   Lady C will issue punishments with the following implements:

  • Two tailed medium Lochgelly Tawse
  • Two tailed heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • Three tailed heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • Heavy Glasgow Tawse
  • Mistress Strap
  • Dominator Strap
  • Cane
  • Humbler
  • CB6000 Chastity Device

All these implements deserve their own post and I intent to do so.   It will probably after I’ve been on the receiving end of them and they’re fresh in my mind. Continue reading