Every Now and Again


Every now and again I get an urge.  I’m sure others get them too.  Today’s urge, however, is for Lady C to have fun with my balls.

Squeeze, pull, slap, punch, knee or kick.  Any would do.

At Last


It’s been a while again. Life just seems so busy and hectic and it’s difficult to get some time to put my thoughts together, let alone put them into a coherent post.

However I find a spare 15 mins today as I wait at yet another airport to get my writing head on.

Spankings at The Disciplined Boyfriend / Lady C mansion have been few and far between mainly due to two factors: family staying over and working away.  

There has been a few, and only last night Lady C used “her favourite” to sting my ass. With not getting so frequent spanking my ass cheeks are more tender and less able to accept the nasty strap that she likes do much. After four I was really wanting it to stop but she insisted that I was getting a few more. Good job she was in a good mood and not intent on delivering a punishment.

We’ve also got a new footstool that caught our eye for the sole reason that it looks like a mini vaulting horse and will be almost perfect for laying over to get that ass in the air.

We’ve only quickly tried out out and had to keep the noise at a minimum, but Lady C did like the positioning. She also likes that she can sit on it and put me across her knees.

It has been mentioned that it will be used again very soon, except this time it’ll be a bit different as the guest in the adjacent bedroom has kindly moved to one at the opposite end of the house.

Until the next quiet moment, happy spankings,

A

Yes Day


We’ve taken one of our readers, Shilo, idea of a yes day.  You know the thing, everything has to be answered “yes”.  Except when I suggested it to Lady C, she assumed that we would both be saying yes, not only from each other but from everyone else too.

Not quite what I had in mind, so what we’ve came up with is alternate hours.  I have to say “Yes Lady C” on the odd hours, and on the even ones, Lady C has to climb down from her pedastal and say “Yes A”.

Its still very early in the day so far, but we’ve had some fun with this already.   “C, goto the bathroom and prepare my shower for me, get the water nice, my shower gel and toothbrush ready for me”.  “Yes A”.

Just wait ’till later in the day when we can really have some fun🙂

A

Uxorious


Lady C was doing a puzzle last week.  The clue was “being overly devoted to your wife”, and starting with the letter “U”.

Well, what is it demanded C?   I shall be teaching you it later.

Turns out the word is Uxorious and when you look up the definition it also means overly submissive towards your wife – exactly what I am them😉

A

FLR Day


In celebration of our new FLR lifestyle, we’re having a FLR day.

We’ll go over how well we’ve done in the last few days and what parts we need to work on.  I have nice request for Lady C to wear her thigh length boots, basque/corset and wave a riding crop menacingly.   My penis is really securely locked in our new chastity device – the Watchful Mistress.

We’ll have some fun, some champagne and see if we can keep a smile on Mistress’s face all day😉

A

Holiday Fun


It’s that time of year again to enjoy our annual holiday together.  I do like not having to do the same old dull schedule and instead get to do new, fun and exciting things in strange, unexplored locations.
I always feel that it gives us a new dimension to be a bit more risque. What better than the anonymity of a hotel room for a spanking knowing that someone might be listening at the door, or discussing the merits of male chastity at the bar or poolside?
I’m not quite ready in the vanilla world to go blatantly displaying my striped ass or naked in the sauna wearing only a Dicktator and a smile, but I do look forward to being able to crank it up a bit.

A

Being Good


One important thing I promised was that I would not try and influence Lady C by telling her what not to do and when she should do things.

Do you know how difficult that is?  How can I tell her that all is well and I would like lots more?

A

FLR Rules in Action


A very nice example of our new FLR rules in action occurred today.   Just to recap I wanted C to be the all loving, all strict, disciplining, yet sexy fun and devious Mistress and Wife.

Today I made a simple error using my not-so-smart phone and allowed the autotype feature to use the wrong form of you/you’re.

Lady C decided that she would teach me the different between the two spellings and usage with her paddle.

As though she needs an excuse to paddle my ass!

A

FLR Rules


As hinted at here – the detailed rules.  Enjoy.

Rules:

  1. C makes the rules
  2. C is always correct
  3. Obey all C’s rules and commands
  4. Discipline for non-compliance of rules
  5. Maintenance as and when C decides
  6. Reminders as and when C decides

Guidance:

  • Do obey all rules
  • Do not cause any distress, upset or torment
  • Do not talk back, argue or be pedantic
  • Do not question commands or decisions
  • Do not fail in commands or tasks
  • Do not fail in your own tasks or goals
  • Do expect to be disciplined frequently
  • Do not criticise discipline, maintenance or reminders

Discipline:

  • On the bare bum – straps, tawses, paddles, canes, slipper or Loopy Johnny
  • On the hands – long straps or tawses only
  • On the balls – spanking, punching, kneeing or any other discomfort
  • Punishment Dicktation – minimum of 3 days

Overall Guidance:

  • If in any doubt, rules 1 & 2 apply

A New Approach


We’ve taken a new approach to our lifestyle.  There’s a few motives for this, but some of the more important ones are that C sometimes really doesn’t know what I want and that our existing rules and procedures are way to complicated.

When C asked me what it is I want her to be, I couldn’t answer and tried a multiple of times to get my thoughts down on paper.  Did I want her to be Lady C the mischeivous dominatrix, HOH the disciplinarian, or C the loving wife?

So after a few weeks of contemplation I came up with a new scheme where we’re going for a Female Led Relationship.  There’s a few rules – six in total – but nothing that C is going to need to remember except that I’m around to give her the details if she needs.  The first two rules are “C makes the rules” and “C is always correct”.   With these she can do anything and say anything she wants and I have to put up with it.   She gets to decide how and when she performs discipline, when maintenance is going to be and if and when reminders will be served.

So far she’s taken to the new approach with ease and able to transition between nasty HOH and Lady C.  Instead of the implement of the week, there is now an implement in the hall cupboard for downstairs use and one on the chest of drawers in the bedroom for upstairs use.   She decides when she’s going to change them and I get no say in the matter.

Within hours my bare ass was in the air to receive the bedroom one – I think it was more to try out her new powers.  I’ve been locked in chastity for a day (and night) just because she was going to be out late that night.   And just to shake things up a bit, she toasted my ass with her favourite strap one morning as maintenance.

This is stuff I like, the randomness of it all, expect the unexpected and the dominant things she says.  More importantly it should put a stop to me trying to top from the bottom and that really annoys her.

Overall it makes our lives easier and more fun as we don’t need to arrange any BDSM sessions.  We just live like a normal couple except that I can expect to be dominated, locked in chastity, spanked (fun), punished and disciplined.   It should mean that there is no bad feelings (except towards that evil strap) and they’ll be more tasks done around the house.

A