F.L.R. Paddling


Last night after returning from the pub and still caged Mistress decided it was time to try out Her F.L.R. Paddle.

Ouch that hurt and there’s still very visible signs on my ass this morning. The side effect of Lady C paddling my ass was to make Her very horny. So She gets pleasured, I get paddled – its not fair is it?

A

New Regime, New Position


One thing that’s came out since we rekindled our FLR/FLM is that Lady C is bit stricter and doing things Her way.   However that hasn’t stopped Her from seeing a good idea and adopting it. In particular She was reading a series of FLR short stories.   Most of these seemingly were total fantasy, but She did mention that a lot of the paddles had holes in them and that the men always appeared to be more afraid of them.

“Why do they have holes in them?”, she casually asked as we were going to bed.   “Well the holes allow the air to pass through and not build an air cushion below the blade allowing faster speed at impact”, was my response.

“I want to see what it’s like with holes”, She said. “Now bend over and grab your ankles.   This seemed to be a popular position in these stories”.   So, I bent over and did as She commanded as She started to paddle my ass.   Bent over grabbing ankles is a position that we have barely ever used, but She seemed to like it and even complemented me on the fact that I can actually get into that position.

Next morning as I was leaving for work, I said “You can have holes on two conditions: one – you choose a name for the paddle and two – you get a hole every time its used”.   Ok, possibly a bit brave of me to tell Lady C how I’m going to do things, but nonetheless She let it pass.

I suggested a few names for the paddle, but the one She chose was F.L.R. – For Loving Reminders. To be used to remind us both that every use is to be done for the betterment of our relationship, never in anger, always with love.

Yesterday I finished work early and was able to do a bit of modification to the paddle.  I drilled a hole, then thought I would drill some more.  We now have a paddle with 5 holes, one hole for each year of marriage.   When I showed Her the finished paddle She was very pleased with it and promised that She would be using it soon.  So far, its not been used, but I’m not hopeful.   Its not the best piece of wood and I’ve promised Her that I’ll make Her a new one made from a nice piece of wood such as beech, oak or maple.  One that’ll have a nicer shape, one made with all my skill and love and engraved with F.L.R.

So if anyone knows where I can get a nice piece of wood, please let me know

Spanking Pants


I’ve written about spanking pants a few time before.    We’ve even made some crude ones.  Lady C ripped the backside out of a pair of boxers that were due for the scrap head and I’ve cut a square out of another pair.

But now we have a proper pair of spanking pants bought from here.   They’re actually very confortable and hold all my bits in place as well as plumping up the rear cheeks ready for Lady C attentions.   See if you can spot the difference in the pictures below?

BeforeNextAfterThe first was before Lady C got started with that evil wooden paddle that I made for her.  Just a few light taps she says.  That’s not how I felt it.   Then HOH decided that the tawse was required to answer for some minor breach of rules.  Together it was all a bit toasty.

More Things I Like


A few weeks ago I talked about things I like to hear during a spanking. This post is about the non speech things.

Having Mistress remove the last layer of clothing is good. Feeling hands slipped into each side of your waistband and pull down says she means business.

Being tapped on the bum or hips by the cane to adjust the position is always necessary.

Seeing an implement selected and out ready for use gets the heart beating.

Pointing at the bed, chair or wherever the spanking is to take place.

Sometimes seeing Mistress clothed normally for a punishment. For fun, a pair of stiletto heels is a must.

Mistress must give the air of authority and give the impression that the spanking is effortless to her and there’s plenty in reserve. There must be an air of simplistic elegance and totally relaxation.

Playing with the implement. Canes and crops should be flexed and given trial swishes. Tawses and straps should be held in both ends and flexed or held around Mistresses own ass, or around the neck. Paddles can be slapped against the other hand and tapped against any hard surface.

The hand on the small of the back that says you ain’t getting up yet.

I’m sure there’s more, but that all I can think of at this point. Do you have any?

A

HOH Hidden Straps


In this post I mentioned that it would be interesting if there was a strap or implement in every room.  Well this weekend HOH has placed a spanking implement in every room in the house.  These will be used instantly for absolutely anything that displeases HOH.

As soon as I got home from work last night, HOH dragged me to the family bathroom to point out that I hadn’t quite reached her standards with regard to towels.  Almost immediately afterwards I discovered this is the hiding place of the small red heart shaped paddle.

There is a two tailed tawse hanging in the kitchen along with the rest of the cooking utensils – not been used yet.  The humbler is in the lounge and was in action for half an hour last night as Lady C took exception to some comments that I made.  Seemingly there’s other implements hidden in the room judging as HOH threatened to put one of them across my ass whilst humbled.

The only other impement that’s been located is HOH’s strap.  This was in the bedroom and was used when Lady C noted that I grudged taking her a coffee in bed this morning.  Update – the Glasgow Strap has now been put to use as HOH spotted me writing this post and determined that it mentioned her and I didn’t ask specific permission to publish it.

I wonder if any of these implements would have been used if they were still stuck in their toybox?  Probably not.

So why are we doing this?   I think it means that HOH feels much more like a HOH and keeps on top of the discipline elements.  And when she does that then it means that I get that constant reminder who’s in charge.  Apart from that its always fun when Lady C goes all dominant 🙂

A

Spanking Levels


Last night I was asked what my definition of spanking levels were.

Level 1 – Light: A gentle warming of the cheeks resulting in a light pinkness and leaving the spankee wanting more.  No visible signs, more erotic than punishment.

Level 2 – Moderate: A more intense feeling that produces an occasional gasp and sometimes make the toes curls.  Leaves a nice red glow.

Level 3 – Hard: Strokes that cause wriggling, gasps, clenching of the buttocks and cause some discomfort for the next hour or so.

Level 4 – Severe: Very hard strokes that make the spankee wriggle, gasp shout out, try to avoid the blows, even plead with the spanker to stop and can cause the eyes to water, even proper tears.  Will leave a nice set of stripes or welts and definitately cause the spankee discomfort for at least the next couple of days.

These are not a measure of how hard the strokes were, but of the total effect of each stroke multiplied by the length or duration of the spanking.  To explain better, a single stoke with a tawse a maximum strength is only level 2, but a 1 hour paddling with light strokes will probably be level 3/4. Easy huh?

A