His and Hers

I’ve made a few of these drip mats, these ones are currently on our dining room table.  And yes, that’s exactly what occurs.

His and Hers

Were We Bad?

The other day I had to give C a spanking as she has been performing a bit leniently as HOH.   As part of her punishment she was tasked with a mini boot camp to prove that she was a competant disciplinarian for a reduction in the spanking.   Honestly 15 seconds hand spanking and she was wriggling on my knee like she had been whacked with the evilest of our straps.  I think I’ll need to give her a lot more a get her butt toughened up a bit. Continue reading

A Year of Domestic Discipline

Yesterday was the one year anniversary of our domestic discipline agreement. As it customary with other anniversaries we thought we would do something to recognise the acheivement.

After getting dresed in suitable attire – a lovely green basque, matching knickers and a heels for C, naked except for a humbler for me – we got down to the business in hand.  First on the agenda was the renaming of the Mistress Strap – aka Bitch Strap – to become the HOH Strap.   To be used only by C at any time for maintenance and discipline.  I can no longer touch it except when explicitly commanded by C to fetch or put away.  The strap formally known as the Mistress Strap has been C’s favourite over the last year.  She finds it very easy to use and is always pleased with the results it produces in reddening by bum so it was appropriate that it was recognised.  C stated that she will continue the use the HOH Strap with as much, possibly more enthusiasm in the coming year.

Presentation ceremony of the HOH Strap over it was time for the special Annual Maintenance Spanking. We had decided that there wasn’t to be any maintenance or discipline at this ceremony, but after the results of the poll here it was obvious that our readers expected one.  The annual maintenance was in two parts.  A single stroke as hard as C could deliver was to represent the ending of the previous year with all crimes and misdemeanors having been addressed and completed.  Another single stroke even harder was to mark the start of the coming year and the to symbolise that the domestic discipline regime would continue but with stricter rules and harder punishments.  C delivered the first stroke but due to the position couldn’t get a really good swing.  The next year’s stroke didn’t connect too good either as landed a bit low catching the top of my legs – ouch.

In between strokes C applied some wax to my bum.  This was something that she’s wanted to do ever since the first days of our relationship.  She was a bit disappointed that the wax being ripped off didn’t reduce me to a blubbering wreck.  On the other hand she is pleased by the smooth lines of my rear end.  My bum is now clean and free of hair and prepared to receive punishments in the coming year.

We had some dinner accompanied by wine before retiring to the bedroom.  I then lay across C’s lap and we practiced some vows before C gave me a nice hand spanking.  We then ended the evening with some love making before heading off to the pub and complete the celebrations.  We did drink more that we intended and have possibly broken our rules on the first day of year two.  It was a special occasion and hopefully C will recognise the fact and I’ll escape a spanking.

Over dinner we had a mini review of the year past.  We could think of lots of good things that our year of domestic discipline has allowed, but we could come up with a single bad thing with the exception of my bum getting regularly roasting.  One of our DD goals is our health and in particular drinking less and losing a bit of weight.  It was really good that C managed to fit into one of her basques and looked stunning in it. If there was ever a good reason for continuing with DD then it was seeing C towering over me waring her basque and looking stern.

The last month or so we have been getting better prepared and putting more emphasis on DD within our relationship and we’re wanting to achieve more sooner. C has also recently discovered how quick and effective the alternate punishments like tawsing my hands, spanking my balls and locking me in a chastity tube are. So armed with her HOH Strap, the stricter rules and the recently added consequences it should be an interesting year ahead and most of it will be spent with my bum in the air.

6 Month Ass-essment

I’ve got a bit of free time on my hands today and thought since its the 1st day of the 2nd half of the year to have the Disciplined Boyfriend Blog 6 month assessment.   Continue reading

Mistress or Disciplinarian

Recently C was promoted to Mistress for a day to help with readjusting herself as a strict bitch. The first evening was so terrible that I extended her reign for an extra couple of days.

Eventually she got into the swing of the thing and spankings were administered. If there was a complaint then it would be that she tolerated far too much brattiness and did escalate the punishments.

Punishments were a six of the best with the black leather slapper at full strength. Although this is one of our lighter, less feared implements it can still produce a serious tingle on the bum. Six is very bearable and increasing by a couple of strokes every time would be a deterrent. Alternatively two minutes of rapid fire strokes would probably do the trick.

At end of the Lady C reign she fitted the humbler and had a bit of fun at my expense. I really need to blog a bit about the humbler as a high percentage of the web search referrals are for humbler.

Gotta go for now as I’m waiting for a flight but I have to blog soon about last weekend.

Happy spankings

Mistress for a Day

C’s performance as head of the household has been disapointing recently.  I’ve decided on a two pronged strategy for putting her back on course.  The first angle of attack got to the seat of the probem – i.e. a spanking.  That has been administered, documented here and forgiven.  The other approach is training and in order to get her mindset back to HOH I’m going to promote her to Lady C for a 24 hour period.

For the true traditional spankos, you may want to skip the rest of this post as it contains stuff other than spankings. Lady C is a my strict Mistress who’s needs to be treated with respect, pampered, obeyed and pleased.  In return She implements a strict regime of retraints, teasing, denial, torture, rules, tasks and humiliation all enforced by Her liberal use of crops, canes, humbler, dicktator and Her treasured Mistress Strap.

The last spanking she gave was by our standards very light.  It was not rushed and uses a nice array of implements, but definately did not get to the level that she intended – “you’ll be wriggling in your seat tonight when we’re at the theatre”.   The positioning – of me – was good, however her stance when using the bitch strap and cane was wrong as the cane only punished the far end of one cheek and the bitch strap didn’t connect properly at all.  It usually makes a sound like a pistol shot and feels like a branding iron.  They are all things she needs to focus on.

We’re on holiday for the rest of the week and its unlikely that we’re going to have any guests or other interruptions.  That’s going to allow Lady C full control and probably make my life hell. There’s some home renovation projects and other tasks that we need to keep moving along and C is going to be able to push  that little bit harder as my expense.

Here goes



In a previous post I mentioned the schedule of authorised punishments.  In this series of posts I will introduce the various implements.   Lady C will issue punishments with the following implements:

  • Two tailed medium Lochgelly Tawse
  • Two tailed heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • Three tailed heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • Heavy Glasgow Tawse
  • Mistress Strap
  • Dominator Strap
  • Cane
  • Humbler
  • CB6000 Chastity Device

All these implements deserve their own post and I intent to do so.   It will probably after I’ve been on the receiving end of them and they’re fresh in my mind. Continue reading

Authorised Disciplinarian and Punishments

I made Lady C a nice certificate.  It recognises her expertise and role as a Domestic Disciplinarian and has the schedule of Authorised Punishments.   I will publish a page with implements at a later date, for now Authorised Punishments are as follows:

1. Punishments on the bared bottom to level 4 (severe) using the following implements:

  • Cane
  • 2 Tailed Medium Lochgelly Tawse
  • 2 Tailed Heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • 3 Tailed Heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • Heavy Glasgow Strap
  • Mistress Strap
  • Dominator Strap

No limitation on number of strokes or time duration.

2. Punishments on the hands to level 4 (severe) using the following implements:

  • 2 Tailed Medium Lochgelly Tawse
  • 2 Tailed Heavy Lochgelly Tawse
  • Heavy Glasgow Strap

Limited to a maximum of two strokes per hand

3. Punishments to the cock and balls using light implements, open palm, closed fist and feet.

4. Erection and masturbation control using CB6000 Chastity Device.

5. Restricted position and movement using Humbler and optional hand restraints and/or riding crop to level 2 (damned inconvenient).

Punishments should not cause permanent injury, have long lasting effects or draw blood, however still allows for sufficient strength to cause the wearer pain, discomfort, humiliation and torment for a period of up to one week.

Level 4 (severe) is pain that would cause gasps, wriggling, reluctance to accept and trying to avoid strokes, pleading to stop and even tears.