A New Approach


We’ve taken a new approach to our lifestyle.  There’s a few motives for this, but some of the more important ones are that C sometimes really doesn’t know what I want and that our existing rules and procedures are way to complicated.

When C asked me what it is I want her to be, I couldn’t answer and tried a multiple of times to get my thoughts down on paper.  Did I want her to be Lady C the mischeivous dominatrix, HOH the disciplinarian, or C the loving wife?

So after a few weeks of contemplation I came up with a new scheme where we’re going for a Female Led Relationship.  There’s a few rules – six in total – but nothing that C is going to need to remember except that I’m around to give her the details if she needs.  The first two rules are “C makes the rules” and “C is always correct”.   With these she can do anything and say anything she wants and I have to put up with it.   She gets to decide how and when she performs discipline, when maintenance is going to be and if and when reminders will be served.

So far she’s taken to the new approach with ease and able to transition between nasty HOH and Lady C.  Instead of the implement of the week, there is now an implement in the hall cupboard for downstairs use and one on the chest of drawers in the bedroom for upstairs use.   She decides when she’s going to change them and I get no say in the matter.

Within hours my bare ass was in the air to receive the bedroom one – I think it was more to try out her new powers.  I’ve been locked in chastity for a day (and night) just because she was going to be out late that night.   And just to shake things up a bit, she toasted my ass with her favourite strap one morning as maintenance.

This is stuff I like, the randomness of it all, expect the unexpected and the dominant things she says.  More importantly it should put a stop to me trying to top from the bottom and that really annoys her.

Overall it makes our lives easier and more fun as we don’t need to arrange any BDSM sessions.  We just live like a normal couple except that I can expect to be dominated, locked in chastity, spanked (fun), punished and disciplined.   It should mean that there is no bad feelings (except towards that evil strap) and they’ll be more tasks done around the house.

A

Grrrrr


That’s my standard bratty reply to Lady C.  I use it when I want to rebel and say no, but actually want her to up the ante.

Deep down it means acceptance but not too the point of total obedience. What would be the fun in that?

Meanwhile a big thank you to Lady C for posting my Ode To Mistress Valentine when I had no access to WordPress xx

A

Caning Practice


I got this nice cane for Lady C’s Christmas present.   She barely used it at all in January, so I offered her my bottom to her to practice so she could become more proficient in its use.

She took me at my word and almost every night bares my ass and does some practice.  As it was to be practice I said I would give her feedback.   The thing that normally reminds her is when she sees the implement of the week hanging up.

The first night was very light taps and I encouraged her to try some trial swishes in the air.  Wow, some of them caused me to wince just looking at them.   She’s steadily got harder and after a half dozen can get me wriggling out of the way of them.  One thing she hasn’t decided on yet is whether to do a full swing with follow through or stop the swing short of my ass and let the momentum and bend of the cane to do the business.   We’re open to suggestions as to the best method or other tips as neither of us have had any experience of the cane outwith our bedroom.   If I had a complaint, it would be that she has a tendency to cane too high up my bottom and when she does strike the lower part it stings so much more.  When she goes really low and catches the crease between ass cheek and thigh she usually apologizes to me – not very Mistress!

She’s not quite managed to get to that next step and cause welts and weals on my ass, but it won’t be long.   This cane is longer and thicker than the previous one and I can feel the difference without much effort on C’s part. Eventually it’ll be able to take it’s place in our collection of punishment implements.

Auntie Has Been Busy


This weeks implement of the week is our short tan leather strap, affectionally know to us as Auntie.   Well this week she has been very busy, most of which I can remember what for, but none-the-less busy.   She was extremely busy the night after we went to the pub and I said something to C that caused her to give me the look and had the bar staff running away too.

Tan Leather Strap

Tan Leather Strap

The one thing I didn’t get any punishment was the C’s day off when a delivery man came to the door.  C remembered to move the strap to somewhere safe but forgot to move the sign above it.   She doesn’t know if he saw it or not, but she wasn’t happy about it.   The words say “There shall be but one Mistress here and no master” – a quote from Elizabeth Tudor and “A good spanking starts when the recipient wants it to stop” – another of my favourite quotes.   Below the strap is one of these nice signs that your mums, aunts, friends and daughters give you. You know the thing about what make a happy house, recipe for love etc.

What else would make HOH happier than a respectful and obedient partner under the harsh rule of a strap?

Tomorrow will be Auntie’s last day while a new implement is chosen.  I suspect she’s going to have one last trip across my bum as C dishes out some retribution for arriving very late and keeping her waiting.

 

The implement in action


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This is this week’s implement of the week. Surprisingly this is where it has been most of the time and not heating my bottom.

It has been taken off it’s hook twice. Once just because Lady C thought she fancied some fun and the other when I hadn’t put some laundry in the machine.

I thought that the spankings would be in the room where we were at the time, but Lady C decided she wanted my bum bare and high in the air on our bed.

The second spanking consisted of only 4 strokes. That’s a lot less than C normally gives, but each was a well delivered hard stroke that caused me to gasp. Damn, she’s getting too good with these straps and tawses. I’m not sure if be able to take much more of them.

As the weekend approaches, it’ll be time to choose a new implement of the week. I wonder what that’ll be or even who’s going to choose.

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And The First Implement Of The Week


Is the two tailed heavy Lochgelly tawse.

I must confess I did expect a tease to be picked and if I had to bet it would have been between the HOH Strap and Auntie.

It’s been removed from its place on the hook and at this very minute is waiting to meet my raised naked bum.

Wonder why she chose it?

A

Implement of the Week


This will be this week’s instrument of punishment. Specially an implement will be chosen every week for My Disciplinarian to punish me. The details of the punishments have still to be worked out, but the implement of the week will be used.

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There’s a nice hook been recently installed close to our front door which will in our moments of privacy be used to hang said implement upon. It’ll be one of the first things to be seen walking into the house or navigating between lounge and kitchen.
I have selected the following implements to be available: Auntie Strap, HOH Strap, 3H Tawse, 2H Tawse, 2M Tawse, Glasgow Strap, Dominator Strap, Senior Dragon Cane, Loopy Johnny and Boudoir Paddle.
I’ve not decided on the selection process yet. I may choose them myself, Lady C may get to choose, or I may even be open to suggestions from the readers here. The implement will be changed at the same time as we change our bathroom towels, so that should be easy to remember.
The first implement will be the auntie strap, but before it can be put into use I’m going to need to do some thinking about the punishments. Of course, these are my rules for me, and in no way restrict Lady C from doing her own thing in addition to them. I would hate to think that I was overruling her 😉