We have a FLR (female led relationship). That means Lady C makes all the decisions or should.
This weekend, as we’re both together alone and not working I suggested that we (she) make it a totally FLR one. A educational weekend where she teaches me how to be obedient, respectful, not to be cheeky, restraint, confinement, discipline and reward.
As this is a prearranged play and not our normal lifestyle I feel I can make comment. So far it’s been all about her, only thing is she keeps threatening nasty implements…. And not using them.
We have drawers full of implements and devices, some very expensive, some antique and collectors items, ranging from titillating to encouragement to deterrent to nasty punishment. Why are they not used more?