For a week we had a trial of something slightly different in the DD campaign. HOH would provide a “reminder” about our tasks and goals for that day. That reminder took the form of laying across HOH’s knee whilst she nagged and questioned about what we were going to achieve or, in the case of the pub, not going to do. With a tautly stretched bot and the boudoir paddle applied in time to the nagging it got the message across and overall was a success.
We been talking about this again this week and how its so much better than maintenance. Actually I think its maintenance albiet under a different name. The idea behind it is that it is preventative and helps to achieve the goals by encouragement before failing. It works for both of us as it helps us remember every day what our goals are. Lady C is also thinking about ceasing maintenance in favour of daily reminders.
Last night we had another reminder session. HOH also wanted me to choose the implement – “not for me to choose My Darling HOH, but it has to be a nagging implement”. She flirted with some of the nasty ones, but ended up with the red heart shaped paddle and got off very lightly with a massage more than a spanking. Compare that to six with her HOH strap.
Question is should HOH use her strap for daily reminders or continue with a lessor implement like the Boudoir Paddle or should it be on a day by day basis?
Unfortunately we overdid it a bit last night and managed to conviently forget our goals and targets for the day. But it was a special occasion and HOH did state that she was being kind. I’m sure that mistake will not be made again.