HOH was having a bit of a rant today. Seemingly she’s the only one that tidies up around here. Wether she does or not is not up for discussion here. “Are you displeased, My Darling (HOH)?”
“Yes, I am”, and started off again. Anyway, I suggested that she meets with a suitable bottom warming implement in one of our outbuildings or cause some discomfort to my balls.
She decided on the latter specifically choosing to have my balls squished in a contraption made of two pieces of perspex with screws and wingnuts. I don’t know the correct name for this thing, but it can be screwed very tight.
It wasn’t too tight this time and C didn’t even notice that I wasn’t squirming too much. She did decide after 40 minutes or so that there would be an additional forfeit to help me remember to help her around the house. This would take the form of the Dicktator. After a bit of a struggle she managed, with a lot of help from me, to get it on and locked.
I’m thinking this was possibly the lightest punishment she could have issued. A couple of swift slaps, light punches or kicks are far harder to take and getting back into position for the next blow is always difficult. A strapping in one of our outbuildings would have been particularly punishing as the temperature has been down around freezing for the last couple of days and baring my bum for C to strap would be particularly sore helping C get her point over. Think the thing that got me off the hook there was that it was cold out and we were nice and cozy in the house.
What would I rather have had?
The ball squishing in any form is not particuarly painful to endure and C is somewhat reluctant to put too much pressure on the family jewels. That and Dicktation always seem to be a bit more of kinky sex than punishment.
A strapping, either on bum or hands, always feels more like a proper punishment. There’s ritual and just having a punishment implement out adds to the occasion. Then there’s the strokes, that uncertainty before the first one lands and then the heat and sting.
After it, you feel punished and that justice has been served. And that, for me, is the closure of the issue or absolution. I don’t like when C is upset or hurt and I always feel that I deserve a harsher punishment than she gives. Of course at the moment of impact I may change my mind.