What do you ask for in a domestic discipline relationship? We got a framework that we’ve worked out over the last year or so and got our rules aligned to our lifestyles. All I ask from C now is to be fair when she judges the performance, firm when she needs to and to punish when she needs to. I’ve set no limits on the level on the punishments. It’s up to her to deliver what is necessary to get us back on track and use as much muscle as she wants. I may not like that particular part but thats what its going to take.
The only reasons I tolerate the punishments is that I love C and this is for our greater good. It takes someone special for me to put this much trust in.