I have been trying to determine if it is ok to spank for non-completion of weekly tasks, when very valid reasons are present! A has not been able to do his appointed tasks this week, and my reasonable head says ‘ Don’t spank!’ My diciplinarian head says ‘ Spank Harder! ‘
After much deliberation, well, some deliberation, I have decided to spank A anyway. This is not out of a desire to be evil or to cause unnecessary pain, but to reinforce the contract. We decided this was the best way for us, A in particular, to get our lives back to some semblance of order. If he slips, then I put him back on track! This week has been unusual and through no fault of our own we have been thrown into chaos!
I have the power to remind A of where we should be and for him to feel that I have his best interests at heart, I shall not let up in delivering the discipline! I spank with love, NOT malice and he will always be sure of that fact. The spankings are never delivered with emotion, but with the goals we have, firmly in mind.
His next spanking will be long and hard enough to leave him wriggling and begging me to stop! Not, I hasten to add, for malice, but because he never has had to beg for me to stop. The short Dragon Cane will be used as he stated its effect when applied in rapid strokes. Last time I stopped too early, a mistake I will not repeat.
I will post the pic of A’s reddened bot alongside the cane when the deed is done!
Happy spanking and blissfull domesticity!
C